I work with men, women and couples who have been affected by unwanted sexual behavior.

I have found that sexually addictive behaviors offer a sense of escape from the difficulties of life, but far more, they attempt to ruin the aspects of your life that hold the most potential for goodness - your family, relationships, and identity. My therapeutic work addresses issues associated with extra-marital affairs, pornography and buying sex (to name a few), but also examines the formative relationships and events that have been influential in shaping your sexual struggles.

I am a licensed mental health counselor, ordained minister, and approved provider of EMDR Therapy. I have extensive theological and psychological training and integrate both disciplines in my therapeutic approach.

If you’re ready to invest in what it takes to make long-term changes in your life, I look forward to speaking with you.

 
 
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Areas of Focus

Sexual Addiction

Sexual Abuse

Trauma & PTSD

Porn Addiction
 

 

Experience

Master of Divinity

Masters of Counseling Psychology

Senior Fellow at the Allender Center

Ordained Minister,
Christian Reformed Church

EMDR Certified Provider

 

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Services

 

Individual Session

50 or 85 minutes


Couples Session

85 minutes


EMDR Session

85 minutes


Weekend Intensive Package

12 hours of therapy over three days, personal narrative reflection and assessment, and 1 hour Skype or in-person follow-up after 2 weeks.

 
 

Insurance

 

I can provide you with an invoice as an out-of-network provider. In this case, I request that you submit for reimbursement from your insurance company.

 
 

Forms

 

Clients: Please complete the “Intake” and Policies forms prior to our first session.