I work with men, women and couples who have been affected by unwanted sexual behavior.

I have found that unwanted sexual behavior offers a sense of escape from the difficulties of life, but far more, they attempt to ruin the aspects of your life that hold the most potential for goodness - your family, relationships, and identity. My therapeutic work addresses issues associated with extra-marital affairs, pornography and buying sex (to name a few), but also examines the formative relationships and events that have been influential in shaping your sexual struggles.

I am a licensed mental health counselor, ordained minister, and approved provider of EMDR Therapy. I have extensive theological and psychological training and integrate both disciplines in my therapeutic approach.

If you’re ready to invest in what it takes to make long-term changes in your life, I look forward to speaking with you.


Areas of Focus

Unwanted Sexual Behavior: pornography, infidelity, and buying sex

Sexual Abuse

Trauma & PTSD



Master of Divinity

Masters of Counseling Psychology

Senior Fellow at the Allender Center

Ordained Minister,
Christian Reformed Church

EMDR Approved Provider


Contact Me



506 2nd Avenue
Suite 1400
Seattle, WA 98104




Individual Session

50 or 85 minutes  (My therapy practice is full at this time.  I do occasionally offer consultations, if desired. I am also happy to provide you with a referral to a trusted colleague. )

Couples Session

85 minutes ( NO AVAILABILITY) 

EMDR Session

85 minutes ( NO AVAILABILITY )

Weekend Intensive Package

Availability is limited. Email Jay at stringer.jay@gmail.com to inquire. 10 hours of therapy in Seattle over two or three days, personal narrative reflection and assessment, and 1 hour Skype or in-person follow-up after 2 weeks.




I can provide you with an invoice as an out-of-network provider. In this case, I request that you submit for reimbursement from your insurance company.




Clients: Please complete the “Intake” and Policies forms prior to our first session.